
Robin happily finds a wreath for her front door.
Family traditions define who we are. They give us something steady and safe in a confusing world. They bring us closer together, help us recall the past, and create memories. This is especially true of kids, who find security and a sense of belonging in family activities. Here are a few Christmas traditions I’ve found meaningful and worth passing on.
Bake Cookies with Kids

Making simple butter cookies works well with kids. They can press them onto the cookie sheet and smother them with frosting and sparkles. Time spent in the kitchen with others makes for some of our most tasty and treasured memories.
Decorate Something

Ornaments made by kids or those commemorating events during the year can make the Christmas tree a visual family history. In the 80s, I bought a wooden computer ornament to immortalize our first home computer. A trinket featuring a black dog was the perfect addition the year we got Beaumont, our Newfoundland. Other baubles purchased while traveling became fond reminders of trips we made.
Enjoy Old, but Meaningful Displays

Each Christmas when I pull out this quilted JOY decoration, I am flooded with memories. Here it’s displayed in the kitchen of my farmhouse that burned in 2001. See the one-horse open-sleigh outside the window? My son would often hitch up our draft horse for an old-fashioned sleigh ride, that included lap blankets and tinkling snow bells. I still remember “dashing through the snow,” the crispness of the evening air, and the utter stillness broken only by the sound of bells. Yes, we still have the sleigh.

I bought this olive wood Nativity scene in Bethlehem 30-some years ago. My Colombian son-in-law comes each year and removes the Jesus figure and puts it behind the stable to be brought out ceremoniously on Christmas Day. I have been unable to adapt to this custom though I see the reasoning behind it.
Gather with Family, Friends, and Pets

This Grinch would never think of stealing Christmas, but he might steal your heart. Family gatherings are a chance to be playful and enjoy the season with those we love. To eat, to play games, to relive old times, and plan for the year ahead.

Russ and Deb’s Newfoundland, Bella, enjoys a visit with Santa at her favorite doggie park.
Read Christmas Stories

The original Christmas story is a few verses in Luke 2:8-14. The spirit of Christmas is also found in favorite films of the season: It’s a Wonderful Life; Miracle on 34th Street; A Christmas Carol; and How the Grinch Stole Christmas. Those of every age enjoy The Night Before Christmas.
Keep Family Cultural Celebrations

A few years ago, I helped make Christmas tamales under the watchful eye of my friend Billy Gutierrez. He makes several hundred every year and shares with family and friends. We still enjoy his tamales for Christmas dinner.

Russ surprised me this weekend with a beautiful poinsettia and skillfully captured a good selfie.
Find someone who is away from family, friends, or home and plan to be with them for some part of the Christmas season. Donate to your local food bank, visit the homebound, or those in care facilities. Look for ways to share the joy.